Brextin's Hope: One word "Unbelievable"

Tuesday, May 11, 2010

One word "Unbelievable"

Last night was our precious son's visitation and I must say I was so honored by all of the wonderful people that came out to provide prayers and their condolences. The visitation was scheduled for 5 pm until 7 pm - however the last person left a little after 9 pm - we had over 400 friends and family members that stopped by. We are forever blessed by everyone! Some people waited in line for over 2 hours to see either myself or my husband and I am overwhelmed by all of the support however am very comforted by it all!

Thank you thank you Thank you

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~JMay 11, 2010 at 10:44 AM
The visitation was very nice. It was so neat how you had all of little Brextin's favorite things displayed. The attendance was incredible! I'm so glad I was able to talk with you & Andy when I came back. You two are such wonderful people, an inspiration to us, for sure. I'm sure Brextin's service will be beautiful today, I hope you will continue to be comforted by the tremendous support and love surrounding your family. God bless your family during this time and always. ~The Schult's
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AnonymousMay 11, 2010 at 1:33 PM
Just returned to the classroom after the lovely service for Brextin. Though I've only known you briefly, I feel honored to have had you and of course little Brextin touch my life. The service was so touching and such a prefect tribute to a marvelous little boy.
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Linda BensonMay 11, 2010 at 9:21 PM
Randi and family,
So sorry to hear about Brextin. I just got to the sunday paper and was shocked to see his beautiful face on the page. I'm sure this is a very difficult time, but know that my thoughts and prayers are with you. Brextin was a beautiful little boy, who brought joy to everyone who met him including myself. Take Care. Linda Benson
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Justine, Romy's MamaMay 12, 2010 at 4:46 AM
I am terribly sorry for your loss. We will continuously pray for you and your family. Please know that Brextin and his story have touched many!
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History of Brextin - May 2007- May 2010

Our son was born on Mother's Day in 2007 - we thought everything was fine - when he was born they did wisk him away because he was swallowing fluid - so they suctioned the fluid out and placed him on extra oxygen - just to be safe - they said I had nothing to worry about - he should be fine -

We noticed from day one he had a very pour suck - he also had a vomiting problem - it seemed that he threw up everytime he ate - then he ended up having a poop issue as well - every diaper was a messy diaper - so we were sent to the doctor - they placed him on a special formula - thinking he was protein intollerant -

The poop issue ended, but not the vomiting - at about 2 months of age - he got his immunization shot and 4 days later he stopped eating - we were rushed to the hospital - where he remained for 10 days - they did test after test - and found nothing - except that his head was smaller than the norm and sent us on our way -

Our local ped doctor checked over the reports and wanted a second opinion - so we were sent to Mayo - they claimed that he could have seizures - however none were noted yet - but the brain pattern was present - then about 1 month later - the seizures started to appear - so we had another EEG and that was when he was DX with Infantile Spasms -He was then placed on two types of seizure medicines - vigabitran or Sabril and topamax. Two years later - he is now off both of those drugs - but is currently taking generic Keppra.

We tried intensive therapy, Hyperbaric Oxygen therapy, and MEDEK therapy in June of 2009 - in hopes it would help him further his development. By doing these therapies over the summer - has allowed him to be able to get into 4 point and rock back and forth.

We just completed a second round of oxygen treatments - and currently he is learning how to suck - which he has never been able to do - so this is a huge milestone. He still is unable to crawl, communicate or stand independently (but will stand when placed up against a wall). We plan on attempting AIT training over the Summer. (he died before this was attempted)

Our son had a rocky start for his first three years of his short life, but he made a ton of strides, we were hoping he would have beat the odds of this terriable disorder, however we sadly lost our son one week before his 3rd birthday - we were in the process of receiving a second opinion on his condition at a hospital in the cities - and we have no idea what happened but he was called to the Lord above to become his angel right while we were in the hospital.

He began to vomit during each seizure which caused aspiration which spread to phenomena which took his life in just a couple of quick hours. I still cannot believe it – he was bouncing in his bouncer and sucking on his fingers just 24 hours before his death – however the heavens now have a very special angel and we have a very very special guardian angel who will watch over our family each and every day. He will be forever missed!

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Tuesday, May 11, 2010

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